Selecting Your Wedding Party Size: What You Need to Know

How many is too many?

Friends, family and lots of celebrations! One of the most exciting parts of planning a wedding is selecting who celebrates alongside you. Your wedding party consists of the people who will stand by your side and support you throughout the entire wedding planning process and on your big day. One of the most significant decisions you'll make regarding your wedding party is choosing its size. Here are some tips to help you find the perfect balance for your wedding party size:

Consider Your Vision

Start by envisioning your wedding day. Think about the atmosphere you want to create and how you want your wedding party to fit into that vision. Do you envision an intimate micro wedding with just a few close friends and family members, or do you imagine a larger, more lively celebration with a larger wedding party? Your vision for your wedding day will help guide you in determining the size of your wedding party.

Consider the overall intimacy of your wedding when choosing your wedding party size. A smaller wedding party can create a more intimate and personal atmosphere, while a larger wedding party can add to the energy and excitement of the celebration.

Think About Your Budget

Your budget is another important factor to consider when choosing your wedding party size. The larger your wedding party, the more expenses you may incur, such as gifts, florals, attire and possibly even travel expenses. Consider how much you're willing and able to spend on your wedding party before making your decision.

Consider Your Relationships

Think about the people who are most important to you and who you want to have by your side on your wedding day. Your wedding party should consist of those who have played a significant role in your life and who you want to honor on your special day. Consider your relationships with each potential member of your wedding party and how they have supported you in the past.

Don’t feel pressured to ask every single one of your close friends or family members to be a part of your bridal party. According to The Knot Real Weddings Study, the average wedding size is roughly four on either the bride or groom’s side. 

If you’re having trouble narrowing down your selections, consider additional important roles of your wedding day, such as personal attendants, ushers, junior bridesmaids (ideal for younger sisters and nieces) or ceremony readers.

Think About Logistics

More isn’t always merrier when it comes to bridal parties. Consider the logistics of having a larger wedding party, such as selecting attire, planning events around busy schedules and coordinating details for a larger group. A larger wedding party may require additional coordination, communication, planning and flexibility, so make sure you're prepared to handle these logistics!

Be Flexible

Ultimately, the size of your wedding party is a personal decision that should reflect your preferences, vision and budget you have for your day. Be flexible and open to different possibilities, and don't feel pressured to adhere to any specific guidelines or expectations.

By considering these factors and staying true to yourself and your partner, you can find the perfect balance for your wedding party size and create a celebration that is truly memorable!